tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post1355869434258096516..comments2024-01-09T23:57:55.358+04:00Comments on Mirroring my Thoughts...!: A call from happiness to despair..Anita Jeyan http://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-8558620282024598982009-09-08T07:45:14.344+04:002009-09-08T07:45:14.344+04:00Just Words: Yeah hitting a bull eye can be a tempo...Just Words: Yeah hitting a bull eye can be a temporary solace..but every time I see them, the frustration comes rushing back!What to do..! Sniff!Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-79454321646983659562009-09-08T02:18:07.319+04:002009-09-08T02:18:07.319+04:00I understand how u feel ,been through it my self.....I understand how u feel ,been through it my self.. I have to live with a average rating and no hike for the whole year ;-( .. this is how I got a grip on my self. Came back home on that fateful day searched my album took a print out of my manager photograph pasted it on a dart board and hit bull eye :-) Better luck next time !!!Just Wordshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15777867252880486592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-18978862979212859072009-09-04T12:40:45.453+04:002009-09-04T12:40:45.453+04:00Sob. Danks dee :-(Sob. Danks dee :-(Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-20875307173123300842009-09-03T08:26:16.948+04:002009-09-03T08:26:16.948+04:00Hey..dont worry.. u take this as a challenge n pro...Hey..dont worry.. u take this as a challenge n prove yourself.. I am sure they dont realise yet wat a terrble mistake they have made.. Time to prove yourself! I am sure you will b rejoicing this time next yr! Beware guys! Here she comes..!!!Anjanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16046489782725703915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-37028855890466750172009-09-02T06:15:51.037+04:002009-09-02T06:15:51.037+04:00I am surely taking your valuable advice, Grayquill...I am surely taking your valuable advice, Grayquill.Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-14564299025599641672009-09-01T08:00:23.931+04:002009-09-01T08:00:23.931+04:00When one gives us feedback either positive or nega...When one gives us feedback either positive or negaitive it is our job to evaluate the merit of the feedback. Was any truth spoken? If the answer is yes, that should be motivating because now we know what can be done to change and improve the situation. If there was no truth spoken than our task is to cast off the words and realize the person has a problem that has nothing to do with me. His/her opinion should not be honored. If his words should not be honored than give the words no tears. <br />Now - demotivation...if the work enviornement is very negative and you are afraid you will always make a mistake - it is time to begin looking for a more positive work place. Fear of failure is a set up for more failure. If you stay you must find a way to cast aside any fear of failure. Trust in your work ethic and your knowledge. If more than one person is telling you about a flaw then you should take note and listen.Grayquillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03118855928142920785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-37995529902221651492009-08-30T12:33:58.963+04:002009-08-30T12:33:58.963+04:00@Grayquill: Yes , A lot of tears've been waste...@Grayquill: Yes , A lot of tears've been wasted..tears of frustration, despair and eventually demotivation. Hmm..<br />@Vineeta: I'm still grieving over it, Vinee, it has really really let me down. Now I have to climb up faster, but even the thought of it is pulling me down! Help!Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-85342585707326476412009-08-30T05:32:53.606+04:002009-08-30T05:32:53.606+04:00Whats happend has happend and its time to move on ...Whats happend has happend and its time to move on and smile...ull have to write about a friend whos gonna be in the same boat in a weeks time...so wait till i get back ..we'll party letting out the grief within...so smiiile now!!! Well Yes needless to say amazing write up!!!Vineetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04358149446935820999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-89307316180065103392009-08-30T03:12:50.026+04:002009-08-30T03:12:50.026+04:00When one has done their best and their best is sti...When one has done their best and their best is still short of either their own expectations or anothers expectations, that is the height of frustration and disappointment. I have been in that place - hang in their and keep showing up doing your best and you will get better. It is a fact of life.Grayquillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03118855928142920785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-50229098472963241892009-08-29T08:30:00.287+04:002009-08-29T08:30:00.287+04:00Thanks for dropping by, ATMM! And yeah, that is my...Thanks for dropping by, ATMM! And yeah, that is my photograph!Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-7479401010809200302009-08-28T21:19:43.152+04:002009-08-28T21:19:43.152+04:00I landed on your blog and this was the first post ...I landed on your blog and this was the first post I read... and of course I know the story only from your perspective... but I hope you dont allow a performance rating to impact your self worth and confidence... <br /><br />There is a near perfect job for everyone out there... hopefully you will find yours soon...<br /><br />Till then cheer up... get that smile back... it looks nice on your face (if that is your photograph)... I am gonna go and read more of your blog now... cheers...As the Mind Meandershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05289502626334651157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-50957678995859639872009-08-27T07:52:46.637+04:002009-08-27T07:52:46.637+04:00How sweet! Thanks, Anup.How sweet! Thanks, Anup.Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-24220445693994403172009-08-26T23:25:09.209+04:002009-08-26T23:25:09.209+04:00Potte.. saramilla :-) their loss.. they'r yet ...Potte.. saramilla :-) their loss.. they'r yet to find out what you can do...Anuphttp://nosite.netnoreply@blogger.com