tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post5182533410819532560..comments2024-01-09T23:57:55.358+04:00Comments on Mirroring my Thoughts...!: Corporate Blues.Anita Jeyan http://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-40633792738783804072009-10-20T19:35:24.197+04:002009-10-20T19:35:24.197+04:00EXACTLY! I agree with each and every word u just s...EXACTLY! I agree with each and every word u just said. Thanks for dropping by :-)Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-22455780990040817692009-10-20T09:45:11.537+04:002009-10-20T09:45:11.537+04:00And I hate how when you give yourself an above ave...And I hate how when you give yourself an above average you have to go all out to 'show cause' as to why they should not downgrade you. As if slogging your ass off all year is not enough! <br /><br />There are huge grey areas in the way assessments are done in most companies and those who know how to manipulate the system/situation are usually the winners. <br /><br />Nice to finally come here Anita. Seen you at AGG's.SwBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04413778896282973176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-28210025131794614072009-10-18T23:35:33.390+04:002009-10-18T23:35:33.390+04:00Yes, bitter and inevitable truth, Ashtung.
And, th...Yes, bitter and inevitable truth, Ashtung.<br />And, thanks for dropping by :-)Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-89194976699820802622009-10-18T21:45:42.555+04:002009-10-18T21:45:42.555+04:00from my experience, things never change. You just ...from my experience, things never change. You just get used to the situation. Keep knocking...Ashtunghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01160756723701338964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-74697037456242418892009-10-17T22:14:01.506+04:002009-10-17T22:14:01.506+04:00Yees you are :-) And in our project theres lots of...Yees you are :-) And in our project theres lots of spare time to talk, isn't it?Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-28174696961513115142009-10-17T15:06:39.909+04:002009-10-17T15:06:39.909+04:00Hey...Dont get this much frustrated..yes i know ur...Hey...Dont get this much frustrated..yes i know ur situattion..but dnt worry yaar..everything will be just fyn by gods grace..then why r u saying that u dont have any frnds in office to talk to..am i not ur frnd??????Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17336742496073994356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-4919117065066486442009-10-17T14:04:52.827+04:002009-10-17T14:04:52.827+04:00hahaha.. ! yeah I think I do. I also bring the mon...hahaha.. ! yeah I think I do. I also bring the monster out of the 'approvers' at office!Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-9071037356974406542009-10-17T10:11:37.723+04:002009-10-17T10:11:37.723+04:00@ Grayquill
what a monster of a comment that!
@ A...@ Grayquill<br />what a monster of a comment that!<br /><br />@ Anita<br />u bring out the philosopher in grayquill! poor u ;)Blunt Edgeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08555022660539210810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-67109640031759182182009-10-16T19:51:16.179+04:002009-10-16T19:51:16.179+04:00Grayquill... The one most important thing you said...Grayquill... The one most important thing you said..which is not to talk to others at workplace about my discontent..You are 100% on that. I know it pretty well. Because all are colleagues here- they do not fall into 'friend' category.<br />Thank you Grayquill. Your words feels like those from a long time friend.Thank you so much.Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-78300870187181312862009-10-16T09:19:42.609+04:002009-10-16T09:19:42.609+04:00I read you are alone in the work place, angry, and...I read you are alone in the work place, angry, and, hurt. I would caution you in talking to others at your company about your discontent. And, do not listen to others words of discontent. Negativity has a way of becoming a monster and making a hard situation much worse. You might think, but then I will feel more alone – that maybe true – Sorry.<br />Another caution – find a way to not hang onto the anger. Every situation usually has three simple choices (but not so easy to do) and they are always the same choices. #1 Can you do anything about the situation? If you can, then do it. If you cannot do anything about it your task then is to either accept it or leave it. It is foolish to look for a fourth choice there is no fourth choice.<br />If I said I understand all that you deal with day in and day out that would be a lie. I do not understand corporate India or your specific situation. - therefore take these word with a grain of salt.<br />In regards to your goals, are you afraid one will say these are not good goals? Or are you afraid the goals will be used against you in a years time? Knowing what we fear is often helpful. A wise man said to me once, A problem well defined is a problem half solved. Another is from the scripture, "for the lack of knowldege the people perish" Be careful your strong emotions are not allowed to act with out full knowledge and full information.<br />You feel things deeply – that can be a great asset but it can also be a great hindrance in your life. You must beat this gift of strong feelings into serving you not running you.<br />Good Luck and hang in there - I believe in you!Grayquillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03118855928142920785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-19675771313127829822009-10-16T08:30:42.437+04:002009-10-16T08:30:42.437+04:00You shouldnt be laughing at that Ajay... :-( I am ...You shouldnt be laughing at that Ajay... :-( I am in so much pain and you are laughing! :-( SOB! (U lucky chap. I will kill u. Dont ever think abt going elsewhere to work. You might end up writing stuff like these):)Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-20288119202920486812009-10-16T08:06:20.102+04:002009-10-16T08:06:20.102+04:00hahahaha... awsome awsome...!! yea i guess the sup...hahahaha... awsome awsome...!! yea i guess the supernatural cooks do cook up a wonder..lolAjay Padattilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04640430819603436465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-28946526699506929412009-10-16T08:05:20.766+04:002009-10-16T08:05:20.766+04:00@ Blunt Edges: Yes. It never gets better.
@ Vineet...@ Blunt Edges: Yes. It never gets better.<br />@ Vineeta: Changing organization can give ya better pay, but never peace of mind.Anita Jeyan https://www.blogger.com/profile/05657647923285324813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-27855428733455270512009-10-16T07:16:39.505+04:002009-10-16T07:16:39.505+04:00Well i had plans to quit..but now i feel whats the...Well i had plans to quit..but now i feel whats the use when the atmosphere is just the same????? Will these situations ever change? or is it gonna get worse??Lets wait and watch!Vineetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04358149446935820999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886740487209578519.post-80436940677655796712009-10-16T00:42:07.132+04:002009-10-16T00:42:07.132+04:00the same story everywhere :)the same story everywhere :)Blunt Edgeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08555022660539210810noreply@blogger.com