Saturday, January 14, 2012

New Year deeds.


Two weeks already into the new year and I haven’t posted anything on my blog- which essentially means that I’ve been busy. I had to fire my maid cum babysitter for reasons that her monetary demands started increasing by the day. Then started a series of maid hunting and background checking which took a lot of my time and patience. Like one of my friends said, it’s more difficult than finding a life partner.

December is the most beautiful month of the year, accounting to the celebrations and food, but it is also the month in which time flies at the blink of an eye. May be no one realized this yet, but it is true. You buy a Christmas tree, decorate with stuff even costlier than the tree, put up serial lights – thanks to very informative electronics classes back in college, and there , Christmas mass it is, and before you know it, its new year’s eve. After that, the tree looks outdated and it literally calls out to be dismantled. There, it’s all over and before you know it, you are there in front of the mirror, sluggishly wearing that identity card on top of a dress which you can’t decide is formal or casual.

By the way during one of our cake distribution visits at a friend’s house we saw an exquisitely decorated white Christmas tree which my son set his eyes on. After coming back home he wouldn’t even look at my humble tree like it was anything special, and chances are that he might have even thought that it came with the house or was an extension of the living room furniture. Sigh for all the effort I put in to hang those little shiny things. But one should always look ahead. Two decades from now if he asks, ‘Mama how did I celebrate my first Christmas?’, I will tell him how he let me down by not being excited about the Christmas tree I set up just for him and add on a few crocodile tears. Yes in fact I am very optimistic when I say he will ask me that. No way, I know : D On a realistic note I will mostly end up pulling him by the collar and say…You have no idea how much effort and ideas I put into this tree to celebrate your first Christmas and then he will probably give me those ‘Are you leaving my collar now, or…’ look and I have to look for ways to escape.

I just realized that I have nothing worthwhile to write here. Anyway last day I got a call from the maid I fired few days back, asking me how my son was doing. I suddenly felt few pangs of regret, but I tactfully tried to hide it with words and expressions. I also told her that my Mom would fly down to Muscat soon. I also invited her over to meet my Mom so she can spend some time with my son too. (Even though I fired her I am thankful to her from my heart for taking good care of my son). She was excited and happy to hear that and gracefully accepted my invitation. Everyone is jealous for money, and so was she. So are we! Don’t we all shamelessly bargain with the HR once the interview is cleared? Yes we do. I thought, God could have created me like her, and made me clean vessels too. Instead He gave me education and a good job. So there…we are not expected to judge anyone who works for us. She might have called to know whether we hired someone else…or may be for some other reason I can’t think of…but when I invited her to my home to meet my mother I can say from her voice that she was pleased.

And yeah, I might have started the New Year on a bad note, but I managed to undo the damage too.

17 comments:

  1. Ms A - "created me like her, and made me clean vessels too. Instead He gave me education and a good job" aint that all we are? pieces falling into place, into the puzzle called social stratas..

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  2. Good writing indeed, Anita ! However I should tell you that there is a limit for which we should care for our off-springs! There is an Almighty who will take care, which humans can't.

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  3. Ousu: Totally true. But people cease to realize that and those born with silver spoons in their mouths actually believe that they are more privileged than others.

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  4. Papa: Thanks Papa, and yes, I really think I have to believe and put my trust in Him.

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  5. I respect you for thinking the way you did and writing about it here. I men about the part about money and how we crave for it.
    I hope you find a maid soon soon soon!
    Your Christmas tree was red an blingy and cute!

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  6. Thanks, Red Handed. I found one already. Trying to cope with her now. :(

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  7. ,y god, i never thought Anita could create such drama as you did with the future queries of the Christmas tree...:-)

    and call the maid back-let the ego go...it is very difficult to find someone for our children who loves them like we do...and yours was a blessing I know...so give it another shot! :-)

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  8. SUruchi: Yeah..I am calling her back...but dont know whether she will come...keeping fingers crossed !

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  10. Money is the root cause of all evil! It forces us to do things we normally shy away from.. As you have mentioned, your maid is just like us.. Demanding a bit more than what we get..

    BTW nice pic Anita. I remember using a similar pic for my Environmental Management presentation :D

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  11. Money is the root cause of all evil! It forces us to do things we normally shy away from.. As you have mentioned, your maid is just like us.. Demanding a bit more than what we get..

    BTW nice pic Anita. I remember using a similar pic for my Environmental Management presentation :D

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  12. Binu Thomas: Environmental management ! Thats the topic of a seminar I presented back in engineering days :D lol ! Thanks ! I thought that picture would totally go with the article. Glad u liked it.

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  13. Good maids are difficult to get....I faced the same problem & in the end quit my job and sat at home;-(.
    Hope everything works outs well!!!!!

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  14. U've been awarded and tagged. Come on over and collect it;-D

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  15. Your little one..I don't believe for a minute he was unhappy with your tree.
    Good luck on finding that maid.

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  16. Reflections: DOne...! and thanks !!

    Grayquill: Finally found one, GQ. Yeah, lil one is not impressed with my tree.

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