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Have you noticed, that the luxuries of today were just mundane things in our
childhood ? I envied sky scraper apartments when I
was living in a villa of sorts with a porch and garden. I envied arcade games
when there were grounds and wide open spaces to run. Stupidity has no bounds. Now even if we want our kids to play in wide open spaces, we have to
drive to that place and pay for it.
Most of us grew up in independent
homes, and even though we live in compact apartments now, deep inside we don’t see
the difference. We live in the 12th floor of a sky rise building
with a living room smaller than the porch we used to have at our parents’
house. Our parents did not throw away things like cardboard boxes, newspapers
etc. because SOME DAY we are going to use it. We talked of this ‘day’ like it
was Judgement Day, because we are not quite sure it will come, still we don’t want
to take any chance. If we have space for it, why not, right? However the day we
used that box seldom came. The box housed rodents, grew mold and did whatever
it could because it was bored just sitting there. Finally when some festival came
that called for some clearing out, the box received it’s salvation.
They kept bills from the day our first diaper was bought, even clocks they
received from housewarming that happened at least two decades ago. Our kitchens
had steel and aluminum vessels handed down to our Moms from beyond generations.
They were used to house smaller vessels and cobwebs. There were toolboxes, paint tubs, old
paintbrushes and what not. Our childhood homes consisted of all these elements
and it gave us that kick for that nostalgic memory.
When we flew away from that
comfortable nest that lodged stuff majority of which falls under the ‘will-be-used’
category, we took with us that tendency. Compact houses we live today have no
room for anything. We look longingly at glass show cases and bigger wardrobes
but we can’t own them. Our homes are
cluttered with the cardboard box in which the TV came, the books our kids used
in nursery, and old toothbrushes. If you survive a year in an apartment just by
routinely cleaning your stuff but not clearing them, the junk that accumulates
is mind blowing.
We don’t need the boxes. If we
have an equipment to sell, we need its bill, not the box. We know how to use
the mixer grinder we are not going to refer the user manual anymore. We can
save the books of our children and some of their clothes too, but not all of
it. There are broken crayons under our sofa seats. There are newspapers we don’t
need anymore. There are huge piles of plastic covers we saved to throw garbage,
but we can never have that much garbage ever. There are spoons in our kitchen
drawers which will never be used and we know it. There are medicines in the
cupboard we haven’t checked the expiry dates of in a long time. There are bed
covers and towels that have served its time. There are bills of stuff which
were sold off long ago. There are chargers and cables whose purpose we don’t know.
There are toys that are waiting to be disposed.
Remember, we are not living in
our parents’ ancestral home where everything has got a room of its own with
attached bathroom. We are flat dwellers so we better act like it. Last week I
gave away one huge bundle of toys and another bag of old clothes. You wouldn’t believe
the space that has started to see the light of the day. When the space is
smaller it shows when you declutter it, whereas in bigger homes it does not
make much of a difference.
Let us take charge and clear our
homes first, and clean them later.
Who knows, maybe we will accommodate the
glass showcase!
